Sex and Success
August 29, 2010 in Uncategorized
I met my wife through a mutual friend. No sparks, just plain old civil communication was to be had for the introduction. Okay maybe I thought she was attractive looking, but that is a trait of every man. We judge females at first glance and place them along the 1 – 10 scale.
She looked like an 8 to me, and should have taken the first fact of not pursuing her as a sign that it should not happen. When most of us (men) see a good looking woman we immediately try to figure out a means to seduce (95% of men have NO idea how to seduce a woman properly) and take to bed the introducee.
Cry ladies, TODAY your husbands and boyfriends tried to plot a seduction. Not that I am saying they continued to do it, but still – a crime of the mind is a crime of the body. Should you continue to feel anger at that statement and resentment toward your better half take to heart that you too are guilty of seduction on a daily basis. You sure as heck do not try to look sexy for your boyfriend or husband but for that prince on a white stallion you’ve been waiting for since childhood. Your bf/hsbnd is most probably also just a “settle” since he is probably part of that 95% group who “gets lucky” when he meets a new potential mate.
I met her in my car, and had a very rapid mental workshop on ways I could shag her then nothing. We became friends and from friendship grew affection and from affection came love. No fucking attraction, affection.
We have been separated twice. Been through financial turmoil, been screaming, shouting, and hatin’ for 8 years now. And the last few months my mind has been wondering “why?”
Why do humans put themselves through life long misery by being in a monogamous relationship with someone they feel absolutely no attraction to?
It’s because the seduction was done wrong, and because somewhere along the way the Man in the house had a serious case of BALL CRIMPAGE. We think that if we are nice and compliant with the females that we will seduce them to absolute nipple erection. We think that flowers and gifts will buy the heart and soul of a female, but really all we are doing is catering for the 95 percentile.
A woman needs to be approached by her dream man head on, she wants to be looked in the eye without the least bit of fear in the Man’s eyes. He needs to have a cool air of absolute assurance about himself and the woman should think “If I can’t have him no-one will have him” to herself in the first 20 seconds of laying an eye on him.
Now that’s the kind of attraction that will last for 50 years.
Time to become a man.