Spam and Trash

July 20, 2013 in Uncategorized

How come we receive so many spam and trash replies, that we have to delete everyday, even when my blog is not public. Come on people, do you really expect me to accept your trash when you hack into my blog or any of my blogs. No wonder why I stop writing here anymore.


March 7, 2013 in Uncategorized

Subject: sisters:-)


A young wife sat on a sofa on a hot humid day,
drinking iced tea and visiting with her mother. As

they talked about life, about marriage, about the

responsibilities of  life and the obligations of

adulthood, the mother clinked the ice cubes in her

glass thoughtfully and turned a clear, sober glance

upon her daughter..

‘Don’t forget your  sisters,’ she advised, swirling

the tea leaves to the bottom of her glass. ‘They’ll

be more important as you get older. No matter how

much you love your husband, no matter how much you

love the children you may have, you are still going

to need sisters. Remember to go places with them now

and then; do things with them.’

‘Remember that ‘sisters’ means ALL the women…

your girlfriends, your daughters, and all your other

women relatives too. ‘You’ll need other women. Women

always do.’

What a funny piece of advice!’ the young woman

thought. Haven’t I just gotten married?

Haven’t I just joined the couple-world? I’m now a

married woman, for goodness sake! A grownup! Surely

my husband and the family we may start will be all I

need to make my life worthwhile!’

But she listened to her mother. She kept contact

with her sisters and made more women friends each

year. As the years tumbled by, one after another,

she gradually came to understand that her mother really

knew what she was talking about.  As time and nature

work their changes and their mysteries upon a woman,

sisters are the mainstays of her life.

After more than 50 years of living in this world,

here is what I’ve learned:


Time passes.

Life happens.

Distance separates.

Children grow up.

Jobs come and go.

Love waxes and wanes.

Men don’t do what they’re supposed to do.

Hearts break.

Parents die.

Colleagues forget  favors.

Careers end.


Sisters are there, no matter how much time and how

many miles are between you. A girl friend is never farther away

than needing her can reach.

When you have to walk that lonesome valley and you

have to walk it by yourself, the women in your life

will be on the valley’s rim, cheering you on,

praying for you, pulling for you, intervening on

your behalf, and waiting with open  arms at the

valley’s end.

Sometimes, they will even break the rules and walk

beside you….Or come in and carry you out.

Girlfriends, daughters, granddaughters,

daughters-in-law,  sisters, sisters-in-law, Mothers,

Grandmothers, aunties, nieces, cousins, and extended

family: all bless our life!

The world wouldn’t be the same without women, and

neither would I.. When we began this adventure called

womanhood, we had no idea of the  incredible joys or

sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much we

would need each other.

Every day, we need each other still. Pass this on

to all the women who help make your life meaningful.

I just did. Short and very sweet:

There are more than twenty angels in this world.

Ten are peacefully  sleeping on clouds. Nine are

playing. And one is reading her email at this


Send this message to ten of your friends including

me. If you get 5 replies, someone you love will

surprise you.

To the Previously Disadvantaged’

March 6, 2013 in Uncategorized

The truth hurts. This is brilliant

This was a reply to an article, in the Mercury
(last week), where the previously disadvantaged
(Blacks) stated that it’s not too late for the
previously advantaged (including whites, Indians
and Coloureds) to apologize for apartheid. Check
out the reply. Just too hot and so true.
This was in the SA paper last week (Mercury). The main headline stated the following:
It’s not too late for whites to say sorry for Apartheid………….
Check the email that went around responding to
the headline. It’s a kick ass response. The guy that wrote it has got it!!!

‘To the Previously Disadvantaged’
We are sorry that our ancestors were intelligent, advanced and
daring enough to explore the wild oceans to discover new countries
and develop them.
We are sorry that those who came before us took you out of the
bush and taught you that there was more to life than beating drums,
killing each other and chasing animals with sticks and stones.
We are sorry that they planned, funded and developed roads,
towns, mines, factories, airports and harbours, all of which you now
claim to be your long deprived inheritance giving you every right to
change and rename these at your discretion.
We are sorry that our parents taught us the value of small but
strong families, to not breed like rabbits and end up as underfed,
diseased, illiterate shack dwellers living in poverty.
We are sorry that when the evil apartheid government provided
you with schools, you decided they’d look better without windows
or in piles of ashes.
We happily gave up those bad days of getting spanked in our all
white Schools for doing something wrong, and much prefer these
days of freedom where problems can be resolved with knives and guns.
We are sorry that it is hard to shake off the bitterness of the
past when you keep on raping, torturing and killing our friends and
family members, and then hide behind the fence of ‘human rights’
with smiles on your faces.
We are sorry that we do not trust the government… We have no
reason to be so suspicious because none of these poor “hard working
intellectuals” have ever been involved in any form of “corruption or
We are sorry that we do not trust the police force and, even
though they have openly admitted that they have lost the war against crime
and criminals, we should not be negative and just ignore their
corruption and carry on hoping for the best.
We are sorry that it is more important to you to have players of
colour in our national teams than winning games and promoting
We know that sponsorship doesn’t depend on a team’s success.
We are sorry that our border posts have been flung open and now
left you competing for jobs against illegal immigrants from our
“beautiful neighboring” countries?.
All of them countries that have not grown into economic powerhouses
after kicking out the ‘settlers’.
We are sorry that we don’t believe in witchcraft, beet root and
garlic cures, urinating on street corners, virginity testing, slaughtering
of bulls in our back yards, trading women for cattle and other
barbaric practices.
Maybe we just grew up differently.
We are sorry that your medical care, water supplies, roads,
railways and electricity supplies are going down the toilet because
skilled people who could have planned for and resolved these issues
had to be thrown away because they were of the wrong ethnic
background and now have to work in foreign countries where their
skills are highly appreciated.
We are so sorry that we’d like this country to fulfil its potential so
we can once again be proud South Africans.

The Previously Advantaged.

?Do you love dogs, can you assist The Township Animal Rescue with a small donation

February 16, 2013 in Uncategorized

Desperatly looking for a forever home

Deaperately looking for a new home

We want a home to love us and we will give lots of love back

We need someone to love us

I will look after you if you look after me

I want to be loved and I will guard you with my life

PLEASE I want to come and live with you

I am just a little fellow, can you love me

I am so scared I am going to be put to sleep with my other friends if we cant find homes. Please help us  

Township Animal Rescue. Bank details for donations

Account Name. Township Animal Rescue

Bank: ABSA

Branch: Somerset WEst

Account No:  915 822 44 88

Please add your name and contact number as reference so that we can thank you.

Jillian Cunningham Ph 021 855 1824

Vanessa Cunningham Cell 0844235991

Do any of you use Incredimail if so here is a link to my Yahoo site.

January 15, 2013 in Uncategorized

I make incredimail stationery. and then place it on my Yahoo site.  I am going to attach some of the pages I have made here so that you can see what I do.



What Sugar does to your Brain. Some interesting facts.

January 1, 2013 in Uncategorized

What Sugar Does to Your Brain?

What is the correlation between sugar and brain function? It
turns out that this relationship, like any relationship, has it’s
good points and it’s bad points. Have you ever felt the
excitement and agitation of a sugar buzz? And then the lethargy
of a sugar crash? Your brain needs some sugar to function, yet
too much sugar can be harmful. We all love to have those
sweets but must learn to enjoy them in moderation.Overeating,
poor memory formation, learning disorders, depression—all
have been linked in recent research to the over-consumption of
sugar. And these linkages point to a problem that is only
beginning to be better understood: what our chronic intake of
added sugar is doing to our brains.

According to USDA, the average American consumes 156
pounds of added sugar per year. That’s five grocery store
shelves loaded with 30 or so one pound bags of sugar each. If
you find that hard to believe, that’s probably because sugar is
so ubiquitous in our diets that most of us have no idea how
much we’re consuming. The Centers for Disease Control
(CDC) puts the amount at 27.5 teaspoons of sugar a day per
capita, which translates to 440 calories—nearly one quarter of
a typical 2000 calorie a day diet.The key word in all of the stats
is “added.” While a healthy diet would contain a significant
amount of naturally occurring sugar (in fruits and grains, for
example), the problem is that we’re chronically consuming
much more added sugar in processed foods, generally in the
rapidly absorbed form of fructose.


Glucose is a form of sugar that your body creates from the
carbohydrates you eat. Once the glucose is made it gets into
the bloodstream so that your muscles and organs can use it for
energy. In fact, your brain needs at least 125 to 150 grams of
glucose per day to function. It’s usually the only source of energy
for the brain. The brain’s neurons must have this supply of
energy from the bloodstream since they aren’t capable of
storing energy, like fat, for later use.

But not all sugar is equal. There are different forms of sugar that
your body uses for energy, some more harmful than others. The
brain needs a steady supply of energy that will last until more
energy comes along. Spikes in this supply are dangerous and
cause things such as hyperactivity and ‘sugar crashes’. The
sugar from fruit will get into the bloodstream at a steady rate as
the fruits digests in the stomach. Fruits also provide great
sources of vitamins, minerals and fiber, so fruit sources of
sugar are great for the brain and your body.

Complex carbohydrates such as starch also break down in the
liver to form sugar. These strands of energy take a longer
amount of time to break down, so this source of sugar works
well with the brain in much the same way as fruit. They can
provide energy for hours without diminishing. One thing to think
about though about complex carbohydrates is that they contain
appetite enhancers and so tend to cause people to overeat,
unlike fruit.

Refined sugars and brain function are a big no-no. These are
the sugars we typically find in abundance on store shelves and
in the average North American diet. The sugar energy from
soda, cookies and desserts, flood your bloodstream with
glucose almost immediately. At first you get an initial ‘sugar
high’ as the sugar queues serotonin, a brain chemical that
makes you feel happy, to be released into the brain. The
massive increase in blood sugar signals the pancreas to start
pumping out large amounts of insulin. Once the insulin gets into
the bloodstream it soaks up the sugar to store for later use,
depriving the brain, other organs and muscles of energy. These
are the beginnings of the infamous ‘sugar crash’ as you
become weak, tired and unable to focus. The ‘sugar high’
combined with the ensuing ‘sugar crash’ causes you to crave
even more sugar, most likely resulting in a damaging cycle of
sugar binging. So avoid refined sources of sugar as much as

David DiSalvo of Psycholgy Today writes that Research
indicates that a diet high in added sugar reduces the
production of a brain chemical known as brain-derived
neurotrophic factor (BDNF). Without BDNF, our brains can’t
form new memories and we can’t learn (or remember) much of
anything. Levels of BDNF are particularly low in people with an
impaired glucose metabolism—diabetics and
pre-diabetics—and as the amount of BDNF decreases, sugar
metabolism worsens.

In other words, chronically eating added sugar reduces BDNF,
and then the lowered levels of the brain chemical begin
contributing to insulin resistance, which leads to type 2
diabetes and metabolic syndrome, which eventually leads to a
host of other health problems. Once that happens, your brain
and body are in a destructive cycle that’s difficult if not
impossible to reverse.

Another connection between sugar and brain function concerns
dysfunction. People who regularly eat too much sugar over a
long period of time often become diabetic. These people often
have dwindling mental capabilities. They are more at risk to
develop depression and different cognitive problems with
memory, processing information and recognizing spatial
patterns. It can even lead to dementia. Also, people who suffer
from diabetes have a 65% higher incidence of Alzheimer’s
disease than those who are not diabetic.

Research has also linked low BDNF levels to depression and
dementia. It’s possible that low BDNF may turn out to be the
smoking gun in these and other diseases, like Alzheimer’s, that
tend to appear in clusters in epidemiological studies. More
research is being conducted on this subject, but what seems
clear in any case is that a reduced level of BDNF is bad news
for our brains, and chronic sugar consumption is one of the
worst inhibitory culprits.

Other studies have focused on sugar’s role in over-eating. We
intuitively know that sugar and obesity are linked (since sugar is
full of calories), but the exact reason why eating sugar-laden
foods seems to make us want to eat more hasn’t been well
understood until recently.

New research has shown that chronic consumption of added
sugar dulls the brain’s mechanism for telling you to stop eating.
It does so by reducing activity in the brain’s anorexigenic
oxytocin system, which is responsible for throwing up the red
“full” flag that prevents you from gorging. When oxytocin cells in
the brain are blunted by over-consumption of sugar, the flag
doesn’t work correctly and you start asking for seconds and
thirds, and seeking out snacks at midnight.

What these and other studies strongly suggest is that most of
us are seriously damaging ourselves with processed foods
high in added sugar, and the damage begins with our brains.
Seen in this light, chronic added-sugar consumption is no less
a problem than smoking or alcoholsm. And the hard truth is that
we may have only begun to see the effects of what the endless
sugar avalanche is doing to us.

Manufacturers today put sugar in everything from the bread in
your pantry to the turkey on your table. That makes sweet ol’
sugar the ultimate supervillain—or at the very least a driving
force behind heart disease and diabetes.



Asian sauces—or at least American versions of Asian
sauces—are notorious sources of hidden sugars. The viscous
liquids that give us sesame chicken, sweet and sour pork, and
beef teriyaki aren’t all that dissimilar from pancake syrup.
Check the nutrition label for ingredients like corn syrup and
high-fructose corn syrup, and watch out for anything that ends in
“-ose” (dextrose, maltose). These are all forms of sugar. Then
be prepared to do some math—most bottled sauces list
nutrition information for impractically small serving sizes. Who
uses only 1 tablespoon of sauce?


Jams, jellies, and preserves seem like healthy breakfast
alternatives to butter and cream cheese—and they are if they
contain only fruit. But many fruity toppings house a shocking
amount of added sugar. Smucker’s, for instance, packs three
different sweeteners into its classic Strawberry jam. Why three?
Because if the company used only one, it would have to list
“sugar” as the first item on the ingredient statement. By
spreading the impact over three sweeteners, it can push fruit to
the top of the ingredient list and hide the sweeteners below. It’s
a common trick used by food processors to make their
products look healthier than they are. Just remember that fruit is
its own natural sweetener. Opt for an unadulterated version like
Polaner’s All Fruit spreads, which—true to name—contain
nothing more than fruit and fruit juice.


You may not be aware of that salad saboteur lurking in your
pantry. When the so-called “light” dressings take out fat, they
often add sugar in its place. Take Ken’s Sun-Dried Tomato
Vinaigrette, pictured here. It contains as much sugar in each
serving as some ice creams do in each scoop. And what’s
worse, it’s laced with food starch. Although technically not
sugar, it reacts in your body in almost exactly the same way.
That means that in addition to the 12 grams of sugar on the
label, you’re also taking in a heavy dose of blood-sugar-spiking
starch. Let’s call this dressing what it really is: salad frosting.


There’s no need to add sugar to tomato sauce because
tomatoes are naturally sweet. So why do processors insist?
Because instead of using fresh olive oil and vegetables, they’re
often making their sauces from cheaper vegetable oils,
dehydrated veggies, and other subpar ingredients. Sugar is a
quick fix: It makes everything taste like candy! To that point,
Francesco Rinaldi lists sugar as the second ingredient in this
sauce, which brings the total impact to nearly 3 teaspoons of
sugar in each serving. Your best bet? Go with a
no-sugar-added option like Ragu’s Tomato Basil. It contains
just tomatoes, onions, and spices. And be sure to also look out
for the sugar count of barbecue sauces—another
tomato-based sauce notorious for sneaky sweeteners.


Oats have been linked to heart health, weight loss, and cancer
prevention, so it’s natural to assume that oatmeal is always a
nutritious breakfast choice. But many food producers spoil the
whole-grain goodness by flavoring their oats with artificial
ingredients and loads of sugar. Quaker’s Cinnamon Roll
Oatmeal Express, for example, takes its name very
seriously—it contains as much sugar as two Pillsbury cinnamon
rolls! A touch of sugar is one thing, but unless you want to eat
dessert for breakfast, go with a lower-sugar option. Or better
yet, make your oatmeal from scratch so you can control the
sugar load. (Tip: Berries are the perfect way to sweeten


Studies have shown that whole grains improve your heart
health, keep you full, and help you lose weight, but not all bread
products labeled “wheat” are true whole grains. Restaurants
and supermarket aisles are rife with whole-wheat imposters
containing enriched flours and sugars intended to improve the
taste of wheat products. So even though you don’t typically file
bread under the “sweets” category, your daily sandwich could
be loaded with refined carbs and sugars. The best example of
the whole-wheat bait-and-switch is the “Honey Wheat” bread
Arby’s uses on its Market Fresh sandwiches. First, it’s not
whole wheat (enriched flour is the first ingredient). And second,
there are 15 grams (!) of sugar in every two slices. That’s more
sugar than you’ll find in a Hostess Ho Ho!


Yogurt is low in calories and high in protein, which is why a
recent Harvard study found that regularly consuming the stuff
helps you lose weight. The problem? Many producers pump
their “fruit flavored” yogurts with sugar. Case in point: The cups
in Yoplait’s Original 99% Fat Free line pack as much sugar as
a bag of peanut M&M’s. Unless yogurt is your weekly diet
splurge, go with a less dessert-y option like Dannon Light & Fit,
or opt for plain yogurt and add your own healthy toppings like
fresh fruit and nuts.


The idea of a frozen meal packed in a nuke-able box probably
doesn’t get your taste buds giddy with anticipation. Food
manufacturers are aware of this fact, so they go heavy on the
sugar and/or salt. Some of the worst offenders? Low-cal or
otherwise “light” entrées. When food companies remove fat or
carbs from their items, they usually replace those calories with
excessive doses of sugar or sodium. Take Lean Cuisine’s
Roasted Turkey Breast entrée, for example. Chances are you
don’t think of turkey as dessert, but with 7 teaspoons of sugar,
that’s exactly what you’re getting if you pop one of these babies
in the microwave. Again, it’s all in the nutrition label. Don’t just
focus on fat and calories; make sure to look out for sneaky
sugars and sodium as well.


In recent years, tea has received a lot of good press for its
impressive antioxidant properties, and beverage companies
have taken advantage by flooding the market with options. But
the taste of plain herbal tea doesn’t draw in the crowds, so
many drink purveyors pump their teas with high-fructose corn
syrup and other cheap sweeteners to boost flavor. Before you
buy a bottle, flip it over and read the nutrition label. If you’re
looking at Arizona’s Green Tea, you’ll notice that it has more
sugar than a Snicker’s bar.

Please note that the products mentioned in this article are from America, so it is wise to check out the similar products you buy in South Africa to see what the sugar level in each one is.



What you don’t know about Onions

December 27, 2012 in Uncategorized

Wow- very interesting….Everyone should read :)

ONIONS! I had never heard this!!!

In 1919 when the flu killed 40 million people there was this
Doctor that visited the many farmers to see if he could help
them combat the flu…
Many of the farmers and their families had contracted it and
many died.

The doctor came upon this one farmer and to his surprise,
everyone was very healthy. When the doctor asked what the
farmer was doing that was different the wife replied that she
had placed an unpeeled onion in a dish in the rooms of the
home, (probably only two rooms back then). The doctor couldn’t
believe it and asked if he could have one of the onions and
place it under the microscope. She gave him one and when he
did this, he did find the flu virus in the onion. It obviously
absorbed the bacteria, therefore, keeping the family healthy.

Now, I heard this story from my hairdresser. She said that
several years ago, many of her employees were coming down
with the flu, and so were many of her customers. The next year
she placed several bowls with onions around in her shop. To
her surprise, none of her staff got sick. It must work. Try it and
see what happens. We did it last year and we never got the flu.

Now there is a P. S. to this for I sent it to a friend in Oregon who
regularly contributes material to me on health issues. She
replied with this most interesting experience about onions:

Thanks for the reminder. I don’t know about the farmer’s
story…but, I do know that I contacted pneumonia, and, needless
to say, I was very ill… I came across an article that said to cut
both ends off an onion put it into an empty jar, and place the jar
next to the sick patient at night. It said the onion would be black
in the morning from the germs…sure enough it happened just
like that…the onion was a mess and I began to feel better.

Another thing I read in the article was that onions and garlic
placed around the room saved many from the black plague
years ago. They have powerful antibacterial, antiseptic

This is the other note. Lots of times when we have stomach
problems we don’t know what to blame. Maybe it’s the onions
that are to blame. Onions absorb bacteria is the reason they
are so good at preventing us from getting colds and flu and is
the very reason we shouldn’t eat an onion that has been sitting
for a time after it has been cut open.


I had the wonderful privilege of touring Mullins Food Products,
Makers of mayonnaise. Questions about food poisoning came
up, and I wanted to share what I learned from a chemist.

Ed, who was our tour guide, is a food chemistry whiz. During
the tour, someone asked if we really needed to worry about
mayonnaise. People are always worried that mayonnaise will
spoil. Ed’s answer will surprise you. Ed said that all
commercially-made mayo is completely safe.

“It doesn’t even have to be refrigerated. No harm in refrigerating
it, but it’s not really necessary.” He explained that the pH in
mayonnaise is set at a point that bacteria could not survive in
that environment. He then talked about the summer picnic, with
the bowl of potato salad sitting on the table, and how everyone
blames the mayonnaise when someone gets sick.

Ed says that, when food poisoning is reported, the first thing the
officials look for is when the ‘victim’ last ate ONIONS and where
those onions came from (in the potato salad?). Ed says it’s not
the mayonnaise (as long as it’s not homemade mayo) that
spoils in the outdoors. It’s probably the ONIONS, and if not the
onions, it’s the POTATOES.

He explained onions are a huge magnet for bacteria, especially
uncooked onions. You should never plan to keep a portion of a
sliced onion.. He says it’s not even safe if you put it in a zip-lock
bag and put it in your refrigerator.

It’s already contaminated enough just by being cut open and out
for a bit, that it can be a danger to you (and doubly watch out for
those onions you put in your hotdogs at the baseball park!). Ed
says if you take the leftover onion and cook it like crazy you’ll
probably be okay, but if you slice that leftover onion and put on
your sandwich, you’re asking for trouble. Both the onions and
the moist potato in a potato salad, will attract and grow bacteria
faster than any commercial mayonnaise will even begin to
break down.

Also, dogs should never eat onions. Their stomachs cannot
metabolize onions.

Please remember it is dangerous to cut an onion and try to use
it to cook the next day, it becomes highly poisonous for even a
single night and creates toxic bacteria which may cause
adverse stomach infections because of excess bile secretions
and even food poisoning.

Please pass this on to all you love and care about.

Wishing you all a Happy and safe Christmas.

December 24, 2012 in Uncategorized

Please be careful out there. and enjoy your Christmas.








Six White Boomers. An Australian Christmas song

December 22, 2012 in Uncategorized

Go have a look you will really enjoy it.

Christmas Cards 2012

December 16, 2012 in Uncategorized


Sending you all a new card for christmas this year. Hope you like it. and there will be more to come in the next few days.


Christmas card